The Parenting System

Ever Feel LIke You're Not the Parent You REALLY Want to Be?

"I believe every child should come with a handbook"

THE STRESS FREE FAMILY -- GO FROM CHAOS TO CALM 

As seen on Fox Television

 If you are a parent struggling with parenting challenges, The Stress Free Family Home Learning Program is for you. If you want more loving and less yelling – more listening and less back talk, more joy and less aggravation, The Stress Free Family Home Learning Program is D E F I N I T E L Y for Y O U ! I help overwhelmed parents overcome exhaustion, disorganization and behavioral issues at home in an easy to follow, step by step, done with you home learning program. I’ll help you make the shift from a life that’s energy draining to one that is energy gaining. 

I partner with moms transform their family's lives by providing tools and structures that promote home life organization and respect for family. Encouraging children to be productive, independent, and well behaved while strengthening and building the relationships and freeing up time and energy for fun and joy. Short on time? No problem, that's why online is the way to go. Learn at your speed, when it's most convenient for you. Start, pause, replay......no problem. No commute either ! Watch or listen on your computer, phone or tablet. When finished, you will be armed with all the tools necessary to being your transformation at home and be able to implement what you have learned immediately. 

This is for you if:

• your morning's are mayhem
• you're tired of nagging and repeating your instructions
• you are frustrated, angry and exhausted
• you have given up or are just getting by
• you want less combativeness and more positive exchanges with your child/children
• you find that the time you spend with your children is not enjoyable and you feel GUILTY
• want to spend your time with your children rewarding them and enjoying them instead of punishing them and frustrated

 If you're thinking......Stress Free? No more Nagging? WHERE DO I SIGN UP ???? I have great news for you!

I've been teaching NYC Parents how to have The Stress Free Family over 10 years. Now you can learn The System from the comfort of your own home!

What is The Stress Free Family Program?

The Stress Free Family home learning program is a complete game changer. You’re going to get 5 video trainings. It's like having me right there with you. I love that you can go into the online portal and find your way around easily. You can stop and rewind if you missed something, or pause if you need to take a break. This way,  even the busiest of moms can keep moving through it. Watch while your having a cup of coffee or listen on your way to work. You decide. I’ve covered it all! You'll discover a step by step formula and game plan…this isn't just a how to….I give you the what, why and how….you'll learn how to apply every part of this system and incorporate it into your home. I actually bring you into my home and work with you just as I do with my private clients !

What Will The Stress Free Family Home Learning Program Help You Do ?

The Stress Free Family sets up structures, guidelines, routines and currency systems for rewards and consequences in the home, helping to create order. It's for parents whose mornings are mayhem, who are tired of nagging and repeating their instructions, struggling with limit setting and rule observance as well as for those who want to spend their time rewarding their children for good behavior, creating the space for deeper bonds and who want to enjoy more positive experiences with their families. It helps you BE THE PARENT YOU WANT TO BE :) It will help you have the family you want, the life that you want with them. It will give you the calm, stress free life you really want. I'm literally bringing you into my own home, just as if you were a private client. I'm coming to you from my living room, grab a cup of coffee or your favorite beverage and let's get this done ! Here's what you'll learn:

In Module 1 ROUTINES

You’ll learn the importance of having your home routinized. I’ll pull back the curtain and show you my exact routines, the day to day structure, in the exact order and you’ll learn how to create your very own. No more guessing, simply plug and play, just change out what works for you. By the end of Module 1, you will have your children’s entire day routinized. No more leaving homework at home, no more " Do I have to take a bath?" No more morning battles. You’ll discover how to detail the most efficient order possible, the best option -- and I’ll walk you through each step so that it makes sense. You’ll actually learn how to Systemize Your Day. You'll be able to plug into the program and tackle those feelings of overwhelm.

In Module 2 RHYTHMS
We are going to cover the Rhythms that help your family move easily throughout your lives. This section will help you get rid of the annoying speed bumps and hiccups that get you tripped up over and over again and get you off track, Again, all throughout I’m sharing my actual situation and helping you to create what works for you.

In Module 3 RULES
You're going to learn why its so important to put together rules that work for you in your home, rules for yourself AND rules for your children. By the end of Module 2, you’ll define your very own list of rules that will govern your behavior and your children’s behavior in your home - I'll help you identify what works for you. I'll help you tie the rules in your home to the values and principals you want to instill in your children. This will help you quickly weed out the whining, negotiation, and the nagging and start you on your way to your new Stress Free Family.

In Module 4 REWARDS
You’ll learn the best way to motivate your children to do what want them to do and to behave well with NO NAGGING ! Remember, I’m all about the nagging free zone…….I’ll walk you through my reward system and you’ll design your own system of rewards that works for your children. You'll learn how to put together a system that rewards them for specific and overall good behavior.

In Module 5 REVOLUTIONIZE
You will learn how to conduct a meeting with your children and actually get them to BUY INTO this program and WANT to implement The Stress Free Family Program at home. I’ll give you the exact words to use-- of course, you’ll need to modify to suit your children but you’ll have the words and the steps to get them to WANT to be on board. You will know exactly what and how to say this to your family and make it so much easier to move forward and implement. I’ll teach you how to have your children help make the rules in your home and help you with the rewards system. Really !

Your going to get the RAPID REVISIT Bonus training
We’ll talk about how to get back on the wagon when you’ve fallen off…….and believe me, you will fall off the wagon, even I do! Your home will be running SO calmly and stress free. It will be all smooth sailing for you. And then, after a while, you'll be SO confident and you'll start to neglect the system and then WHAM ! You'll be right back to CHAOS! That's when you’ll really love and appreciate knowing that you have this system in place -- this scaffolding in place to come back to. This module is NOT about maintenance, it's about getting back ON the program when you've fallen OFF the program. This module also speaks to GROWING with the system , so as your children get older and things naturally change for them-you'll know how to make changes to the structure and how to have the conversations around that. You will use this program for YEARS! I have 3 teenagers living in my home now and it all still works !!!!!!!

WHAT WILL I TEACH YOU TO DO ?

I will teach you how to create your very own Stress Free Family and transform your home life from overwhelming to joyful. The Stress Free family is literally the difference between chaos and calm.

SO WHERE ARE YOU NOW ?
Maybe you’ve been stuck in the same place with the same problem for years. Maybe you don’t have hope or believe that things can change. Maybe you think your situation is too difficult to change. Its not easy to say yes to yourself from that place. But this is your opportunity to break out of a stuck or fearful place, and say YES to a new possibility and to a better future.

You can leverage my experience and get the support you need and learn how to have your own Stress Free Family. We can solve this puzzle together! You may be just too close to it to see how to do it on your own, I'll help you dig through the brain dump of information you've been processing, and drill it down to my 5 part system. When you have a clear system and the steps have already been created, all you have to do is follow the system, which becomes so natural very quickly……

Sign up today, and I'm including these bonuses:

• FULL lifetime access to the 5 modules that complete The Stress Free Family Home Learning Program (Value $1997)
• The Parenting Success Templates, Checklists, Formulas and Scripts Package ($497)
• Bonus Module Rapid Revisit ($97)
• One on One "Close the Gap Wrap up Call" Laser Coaching Session ($500 Value)

GO FROM CHAOS TO CALM AND START LIVING STRESS FREE

Hear from one of my students, Cristina.................

"I learned of Madeleine through a friend of mine who took her course and raved about it. I was completely burned out by chaotic mornings with 3 kids (2 with ADHD) and I was stressed out with day to day parenting. My friend told me to take the course and that it would change everything for me. The Stress-Free Family, helped me understand the effect chaos was having on my children and on me. She helped me see the world through their eyes, which gave me added motivation to take action. I was surprised to learn that there are certain things that must be done incrementally and in a certain order, creating a solid foundation for an overall peaceful household. Everything she teaches is practical and easy. The videos are short and so well explained and things started changing right away. And I loved that she brought me into her home so it felt like I was being coached privately.

The result is that our mornings are much smoother — we're no longer "flustered." And I send my kids off to school each morning knowing they're starting their day on a calm note; They no longer feel rushed, anxious or annoyed. And I'm much calmer! I don't nag, I don't threaten, I don't yell. My kids are happier, I AM HAPPIER !

One thing I liked was how Madeleine explained why things needed to happen in a certain order. Throughout the entire program, I had confidence that she saw the "big picture" and was leading me toward the stress-free path.

I found the experience to be eye-opening and empowering. I also appreciated that she showed me how to grow with it as my kids get older and how to get back on track. I know that if chaos has creeped its way back, I've somehow dropped the ball in one area —and that ball is in my court. All I need to do is go back the "system" and — voilà — things are back to normal (our "new" peaceful normal). And the support! Everyday questions answered in that awesome facebook group and every month I got to talk to her on the phone ! And knowing that I can get on facebook and get an answer and be part of that group in 2 years is very comforting.

I recommend The Stress-Free Family to anyone who feels they're not the parent they know their child deserves (it's how I felt). If you feel like you've lost control of your household, Madeleine will gently guide you to a peaceful and stress-free family.

Thank you, Madeleine!"

Cristina Favreau (aka NOT that Mom)

WAHM to 3 kids aged 8, 9 and 11

Quebec, Canada